As soon as you start to plan your big day you'll often start to receive 'advice' from all directions. Every man and his dog will probably have an opinion on everything from the budget, location, and guest list, right through to the invitations, bridal party and seating plan. It's great to take recommendations on board and you'll often get some great ideas from family and friends but remember that it's your day. That's not being selfish, it's just a fact. If you love your day, everyone who cares about you will too.